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Upon further consideration, that might be part of it, but I think Tamsin mostly meant that Bo wasn't listening because Bo had already made up her mind about who Tamsin was, and wasn't willing to alter her perception of her initial opinion.
Yup! That's what I gathered from that line, anyway.
Also, I felt it had a hint of Tamsin feeling invisible to Bo, and everyone else for that matter, that it doesn't mean just listening in the literal sense, but not seeing her for who she is outside the dark fae allegiance, and noticing that underneath the tough exterior, Tamsin is vulnerable and has a longing for friends and somewhere to belong, especially after getting involved with the happy sunshine gang and sees what they have.
After all, she goes against everything she is supposed to do as a dark fae and otherwise, to help Bo and save Kenzi. And this is what Bo isn't "listening" to.
Though I may read a bit too much into it, but yeah. That's what it says to me.